A columnist reflects on the pressure to hire domestic help, the soaring demand for cleaners among under-35s, and the disconnect between financial struggles and spending on luxury services.
Not long ago, I opened my door to the horror of an unexpected visitor. A university friend was passing through Bristol on the way to a conference; she thought she would look me up.
I beamed in a voice that said Oh no. While it was nice to see my old pal, what was not nice was the prospect of her seeing inside my home. Some abodes are always ready for their close-up; mine is not. I need a week s notice to ensure that the smears of Nutella are scrubbed off the walls and the sinks cleansed of toothpaste glubs.
I stood blocking the doorway like a criminal whose fingerprints are all over the scene inside. Come in I trilled. In stepped my smartly-dressed friend her face soon dropping as though she had just been parachuted into a slum rife with contagious diseases. Which she had.
I have children aged eight six five and two who are atrociously messy. I am a terrible sloven too busy chasing my own tail to hoover thrice daily. The result is a house that frequently looks like a crack den. If a burglar were to break in they would think the place had already been done over.
After a few minutes of small talk my friend s brow furrowed. She asked if I had any help a cleaner. When I told her I don t and don t plan to get one she was aghast. But you have four children she looked around my living room-cum-bomb site.
No further words necessary. A recent survey found that 40 per cent of under-35s now use a cleaner. This is the generation that is said to be suffering financially like none before. No I do not have a cleaner.
I do not have a Bev or Barb or Bogdana from Bulgaria to toil in my domestic hellscape and among friends and family this is increasingly unusual. One friend has hers round three times a week not only to spruce the place up but to do the laundry too: a skivvy to wash the skivvies. I am astonished that so many can afford it.
My husband and I have decent incomes he is a consultant surgeon but still once these have been ravaged by the mortgage bills food shops and so on the idea of spending 60 pounds a week on a three-hour clean that will soon be obliterated by a tsunami of fresh dirt seems ridiculous. That is over 3000 pounds a year people. Who aside from the really wealthy can afford this? Well lots of people apparently.
Demand for domestic cleaning services has soared by 142 per cent since 2023. The biggest customers: under 35s. A recent survey found that a whopping 40 per cent of them now has a cleaner. This is the generation that is said to be suffering financially like none before the generation which bemoans their lot in comparison to the pampered and indulged Boomers.
Given that just under a third of under-35s live with their parents my rudimentary maths tells me about half of those not living with their mum and dad now have a cleaner. How can there be a cost-of-living crisis pinching at all levels of society while a sizeable chunk of under-35s can afford to pay for someone else to mop their floors? What is going on?
Maybe it is the influence of social media stars like Molly-Mae Hague and Michelle Keegan whose homes with their acres of stain-free pale grey upholstery depict what making it looks like in 2026: having a gaff that looks like a chain hotel. Maybe it is the cleanfluencers such as Mrs Hinch with her five million followers who have turned a well-organised utility room into the ultimate aspiration.
Maybe it is that under-35s live in a world more uncertain than ever before and thus crave order. World War 3 about to erupt? AI going to steal your job? Turn your home into a haven of sparkling surfaces.
Or maybe there is something else going on something less comfortable to admit which is that a lot of young people find the idea of doing their own cleaning a bit demeaning these days. Having a cleaner is not just a convenience it is a status symbol showing that someone like you doesn t have to get on your knees to wipe the skirting boards. You have earned your way out of such chores.
So having a cleaner has leapt from indulgence to necessity for many and the sector is booming. In many ways this is a great thing. It is getting money into the pockets of those who would like to earn it. It is boosting around 75000 taxpaying businesses.
But I can t help noting a disconnect between the highly attuned and loudly declared social conscience of many under-35s and their increasing use of cleaners. An image springs to mind of a 20-something busily writing a social media post on inequality while next door a migrant is giving their lavvy a good scrubbing. Doubtless most would recoil at the word servant with its Upstairs Downstairs overtones but a servant is what they have.
The trend reflects a shift in values where convenience and status outweigh the financial strain. It raises questions about how we define necessity in an age of precarity. Are we outsourcing our domestic responsibilities to avoid confronting our own messy lives? Perhaps the clean home is a metaphor for control in a chaotic world.
Yet the cost is not just monetary but ethical. As we hire others to scrub our floors we must consider the implications of a society divided between those who clean and those who are cleaned for. The debate over cleaners touches on class gender and migration. It is a microcosm of broader inequalities.
For now I remain without a cleaner my Nutella-stained walls a badge of my refusal to participate in this new norm. But I wonder how long I can hold out as the pressure to present a perfect home intensifies. The next time a friend drops by I might just keep the door closed
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