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In fifth or sixth grade, a bunch of kids in my class played “pretend weddings” on the playground. One of the boys wanted to “marry” me, and if my memory serves me correctly, though I did have a crush on this boy, I declined the “proposal.” Maybe I was onto something.
Growing up, especially as a girl, getting married seemed to be one of those things expected of me. I didn’t question it much and figured one day I’d be married — it was just a matter of when. Well, “when” came at age 36, when I married my now-husband after five-plus years of dating. I’m approaching 50, so we’ve been together for a while now. Plenty of time for me to have grown comfortable with being a “Mrs.”Like nearly everyone, I want to be loved. To me, that means caring and commitment.
The wedding came and went. Tons of preparation, and one evening that went by in a flash. Was it nice? It was. Would I have instead spent the time and money on something else? Definitely. I reflect back on being more stressed than joyful during that time. There was too much pressure to achieve perfection. Too many opinions and obligations to juggle. Eloping would have been ideal, but dealing with the wrath of inevitable disappointment from family wasn’t worth the alone time.
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