Do you have any advice on how I can respond in a way that feels more genuine and meaningful, both for myself and for those who express their thanks?
Annie Lane offers some suggestions to a veteran on how they can respond to thanks from others beyond just saying "you're welcome"
I don’t want to come off as dismissive or ungrateful, but I also struggle to convey how much their acknowledgment means to me. -- Wondering VetFirst and foremost, I want to say thank you for your service. Take a moment to let that gratitude sink in. Think about why they’re saying “thank you”; it’s because you made immense sacrifices and put your life on the line for your country. That’s something for which we are all deeply grateful.
If you feel that the person’s comment is especially sincere, you could respond with something like, “Thank you, I really appreciate you recognizing my service.” This can create a more genuine connection and reflect how much their acknowledgment means to you. Despite caring for my mother when she was ill and helping her with everything after my stepfather died, she never showed any appreciation. When I left my contact information, she never reached out over the next 18 years. I received nothing but hurtful letters, calling me a problem child.
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