She’s rich and likes to treat her friend to nice restaurants – regardless of if the letter writer can reciprocate.
I’m not well-off, and my friend is. She loves eating at nice restaurants. I can’t afford those, so I usually take her out for hamburgers. She knows my financial circumstances.
Should I refuse to accompany her? Or give up and figure that she can afford it, and that she doesn’t care that I can’t reciprocate?obviously the case, but you should still reciprocate — just not in a restaurant competition. Unless you can find a really good restaurant that is not yet well-enough known to charge high prices.Nah. Your friend would not be able to resist telling her rich friends about it, and the prices would soar.
You needn't do this at every meeting, as if in payment for lunch. Just often enough to show that you care about your friend and enjoy contributing to her happiness, as she does to yours. That is what reciprocation in friendship is.I’m in serious need of help. My husband and I are both considered leaders in our community, although my husband has a professional role as such, while I do not.
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