Dear Deidre: Cheating and can you get over it
At first I stayed out of his way while he worked but as the month wore on, I found myself laughing and chatting with him. I started to look forward to him arriving, making sure I was dressed and presentable.
I'm 35, my husband’s 39 and we’ve been married for ten years. We have one daughter together, aged seven.When the kitchen was finished, we exchanged numbers and we started messaging regularly. We’d talk about everything — and I mean everything — such as what we enjoyed in bed.Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.
Things escalated very quickly and we started exploring sexual fantasies together - something my husband has no interest in.We used to have a blissful marriage until I discovered a year ago that my husband had been having an affair. I felt so betrayed and things haven't been the same since.My lover, who is 45, wants to support me and I’m ready to leave my husband for him, but I don't want to hurt my daughter.
I’m in such a mess and I feel so trapped. My lover has been so patient but I feel guilty about keeping him waiting for so long.You sound certain that you want your marriage to end but before you make any rash decisions try to remember you’re in the heady, early days of romance with your lover. Things are bound to feel amazing and it’s natural to want to follow that exciting feeling, but I would urge you to think long and hard if your marriage is worth fighting for.The last thing you want is to tear your life apart and discover life with your lover doesn't measure up.If you decide to stay, couples counselling will be essential. You can find support through Tavistock Relationships, .
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