A reader recounts a friend's lack of support during her recovery from hip replacement surgery, despite the reader's past assistance to the friend during her own health challenges. The reader questions if her feelings of hurt and disappointment are justified.
Some people don't realize how their behaviors impact others. Annie's suggestion to today's reader is to show her friend how much she was missed the next time they are together.
I had a friend who I thought was a close friend. We live about half a block from each other. In the past, when she had surgery and was recovering from cancer treatments, I took her to the hospital, prepared meals and supported her. She’s a widow with no family here in town. After my recent surgery, she didn’t visit or call.
She knew I was released and home from the hospital but only contacted me once. I would have enjoyed just visiting with her and having coffee. I can’t imagine why I haven’t heard from her. When other friends have asked her how I’ve been doing since my surgery, she’s apparently claimed she didn’t realize I’d already had my procedure.
The next time you two have some one-on-one time together, share how much you’ve missed her and how her lack of presence during your recovery has felt -- especially given the effort you’ve made to support her in the past. It might feel a little awkward at first, but communication and honesty are two of your best tools for getting your friendship back on track.My company has a back-to-office four days a week mandate this year.
FRIENDSHIP SUPPORT RECOVERY SURGERY COMMUNICATION
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