I think it’s wrong for a married woman to be interacting with men.
I married for the second time two years ago, to a younger woman. Seven months after our wedding, she announced she didn’t like my dominating personality, which is why she was stepping out of the marriage. She then went back to her deadbeat ex-boyfriend for six months.
I went for counseling and have made a major change in how I treat, talk and make decisions with her. I love my wife with all my heart. I want to protect our marriage and move forward from the affair.She takes her daughter with another man on play-dates along with his daughter, and goes to the park with another man for three hours. The third one is a guy she goes with to the park, splash pads, public swimming pool and a water-slide park. They text each other often.
Am I wrong to think this is unacceptable for a married woman? Any advice would be absolutely appreciated.It’s time for joint counseling, with a new therapist for you and your wife. I can’t think of a better way to drive her away than continuing to obsess about what she “may” be doing on these outings. It is hard to envision her carrying on flagrantly with a child in tow; the activities you describe seem distinctly family-oriented to me.
It appears you still expect her to conform to your idea of how a married woman “should” behave, or you’re having serious trust issues. More counseling for you may be in order if your marriage is going to last.
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