I love my wife, but I also love Alexis as more than a friend ...
DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my wife for a little over a year. I love her. However, right before our wedding, I met a co-worker I’ll call “Alexis.” We hit it off, and I consider her a close friend.
There have been instances when I have ditched my wife to hang out with Alexis -- not to do anything, but just to hang out with her and her mother. My wife says I spend too much time with Alexis between work and after work, but she’s fun to be with. My wife is kind of a homebody. She doesn’t like to go out and have a good time.
DEAR LOVES: You may love both of these women, but you are being fair to neither one. Your wife doesn’t trust Alexis because she senses something is wrong -- and she’s right. You and Alexis aren’t buddies; you are lovers. That you have confided it to friends “who think this is odd” means it is just a matter of time until your wife is in on the secret. Your first loyalty should be to your wife.
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