In today's Ask Amy column, Amy Dickinson responds to a former pastor who is disheartened by the number of bad funerals he's been involved in.
When I entered parochial work, I looked forward to being a pastoral presence during the surrounding events. I had a very good reputation in this area. However, as I look back, I am so very glad not to have to deal with the behind-the-scenes fights occurring at funerals.
For my very first funeral service, I stood in for a colleague who was out on an extended vacation. At the gravesite, a health care provider suddenly let loose on the elderly widower, degrading him about his lack of caring for his wife. Fortunately, my prior naval career had provided experience in dealing with difficult people.A few days later, both I and the widower received an apology.
After more than 21 years of ministry I can say, sadly, that I can count on one hand the number of “good funerals.” After reading one of your latest columns, I realized how relieved I am not to have to “gear up” for what should be celebrations of life.Funerals are high-stress events. I give credit to clergy and funeral directors who work so hard to try to keep the peace.or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on TwitterIf you purchase a product or register for an account through a link on our site, we may receive compensation.
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