A father asked KZN for help dealing with being asked to become a stay-at-home dad 👪 CarolOforiOnECR KZN Father
"Children and Housework are not commodities to be passed off or paid for. Herein lies the historical problem. She can pay for that role. You are a Husband, a Co-parent and her Lover and friend. Meet her at that level and you will live happily ever
after. Seeing staying at home as taking care of kids and housework and cooking is a deeply misogynistic mindset. This mindset ejects a man's value to a 21st-century woman earning good money. Your value in her life must be real... She can pay for everything else.""Instead of asking a bunch of strangers for their 2-cents worth of advice, why not sit down with your wife & have an open & honest discussion with one another, don’t be afraid to show your emotions / fears etc.
feel emasculated, maybe you 2 can come up with a plan where everyone wins, especially the kids. This is a conversation & decision that only the 2 of you can make, it’s your lives & no-one else’s. I wish the 2 of you the best of luck & I pray it works out for all. P.S. This is just a personal opinion, & it’s something I apply in my life. When it comes to your kids & their safety & happiness, you & your ego need to come second . Depending on their ages, why not include them in your conversation & decision?
Lastly, you are not a skebenga for feeling this way, it is absolutely 100% natural. I truly hope it all works out for the best for you.""Definitely a skebenga of note, be a MODERN MAN and step up to the plate & take care of your kids. Nothing wrong with the woman providing! It's the new modern age!"
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