'[Kanye's] choices help perpetuate the systemic and institutional violences that many women face when powerful men who desire them feel rejected.'
The seven-year marriage between Kim and Ye has been a wild and tumultuous ride, as many Hollywood relationships may be. But, what stands out here is that we are witnessing a Black man seemingly struggling with his mental state even as he continues to make destructive choices — many of which should not be linked with his mental health. Perhaps the most profound statement Ye has made acknowledging this dichotomy comes from his apology to Kim after posting texts she had sent him on Instagram.
. “I know sharing screenshots was jarring and came off as harassing Kim. I take accountability. I’m still learning in real time.”Accountability is a process of truth-telling and holding regard for the harm that was caused. It is about centering the needs and concerns of those who have been harmed and allowing them space to determine what actions might truly resolve the harm rather than increase it.