[Two Pronged] My parents refuse to discipline my younger siblings and expect me to do it instead

'I am left to discipline my younger siblings. I’m quite annoyed with my parents that they don’t have the guts to discipline them, and would pass that responsibility to me'

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Jeremy has a master’s degree in law from Oxford University. A banker of 37 years who worked in three continents, he has been training with Dr. Holmes for the last 10 years as co-lecturer and, occasionally, as co-therapist, especially with clients whose financial concerns intrude into their daily lives and Like her, I am the eldest. I am left to discipline my younger siblings.

But I literally am out of the picture. It would be about my sister’s grades or her getting in a fight in school or with the neighbors, but somehow, I’d get scolded too? HELP!!There seem to be two issues involved here: parentification and triangulation. Sometimes it is obvious because it is voluntary, like when a therapist is “triangulated” with everyone’s knowledge and consent, with the common hope that this will improve the marriage of the two spouses. However, more often than not, the triangulated person is not a therapist but a child who has neither the education, training, nor skills of a mental health professional. This sort of triangulation is far more insidious because usually no one realizes what is happening.

It is difficult enough for any child to be triangulated by passing on messages because yes, in typical “shoot the messenger” fashion, the messenger is often shot – though happily, not literally.

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