"The Hot Wife And Mean Husband ": This Couple's Counselor Is Sharing The Dynamics She Sees All The Time, And It's Fascinating) has been going viral for her deep-dives into what makes various common types of couples tick, and people are stunned by how accurately she's painted a picture of their relationships.
And though she uses her own terms for the partners she discusses in her videos, Dr. Shiels says she's based all of these archetypes on a specific combination of attachment styles, big-5 personality traits, and core beliefs."I used known concepts in psychology and research, but completely made up silly names for each category, just to make them easier to remember."
She also explained how understanding these common relationship dynamics can help people heal."A lot of people walk around fearing that they are defective, hopeless, invisible, or abandonable, usually from some combination of their biology and painful experiences. Learning about attachment styles, core beliefs, early experiences, and even inborn personality factors, all help people to realize, 'I’m not alone, and there’s nothing wrong with me.
Dr. Shiels also cleared up a common misconception many people have about the role of couples therapy."One of the most common misconceptions is that couples therapy makes things 100 percent comfortable,. Although good therapy will provide understanding, exercises, and scripts to regulate one another as much as possible, complete comfort and fairness are neither constant nor guaranteed.
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