A reader asks Miss Manners for advice on navigating a tense situation while staying with a family friend whose husband is clearly unhappy with their presence. The husband has requested a divorce, and the couple is engaged in heated arguments. Miss Manners advises the reader to prioritize their own well-being and consider leaving the situation.
Miss Manners: I’m staying with a family friend whose husband clearly isn’t happy to have me in his homeDEAR MISS MANNERS: I am currently staying with a family friend and her husband for a few days while visiting my hometown. The husband clearly isn’t happy with me staying here, so I have not interacted with him much.
How do I interact with him further? Is it rude if I just avoid him? Currently, our conversations are barely existent. A guest must also be gracious, even under extraordinary circumstances. The rule that applies here is the one about happening upon accidents: If you can help, jump in and do so. If not, don’t gawk -- move on.
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