Constantly stepping in to fix an adult child's problems can backfire in the long run. Here's how—plus 10 ways to give them the support they really need, by DrJeff4Help
If you answer"Yes" to even one question below, it is important to stay mindful of how yourDoes your child now act entitled to, and demand, things you once enjoyed giving—car privileges, gifts, perks at home, or rent money?Do you sacrifice too much to meet your adult child’s needs?The Importance of Setting Boundaries
Try not to be adversarial as you encourage your child to become more independent. The goal is to be supportive and understanding with a collaborative mindset. Don't indiscriminately give money. Providing spending money should be contingent on children’s efforts toward independence. If you can afford it, offer to help pay starting costs of rent on an apartment. Agree with decreasing contributions to rent until the child is fully responsible.Set limits on how much time you spend helping your child resolve crises. Encourage the child to problem-solve by asking,"What are your ideas?”
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