When they were first seen together, Sophie and Taylor were surrounded by a gaggle of beaming fans, and it felt like some kind of justice for women over their exes everywhere.
have given me the heebie-jeebies. Not because I’m a Swiftie. Not because I’m team Sophie or pro Jonas. It’s not the actual celebrity trio that’s making me itch, it’s what they represent: two of your exes linking up. The xx. The ex squared. There’s nothing I’d like less than my fresh ex hanging out with my archive ex, the two archeologically digging through the relationships.
, and not bringing it up every six seconds. How could Joe not be served up before the starters? And a deep dive on your ex is the perfect dessert. It’s a chef’s kiss of passive-aggressive revenge. Joe’s imagination is probably worse than reality here. What deep privaciesthey be unearthing? He’ll think of them summing the sex up in a single line, or a single word, or worse: a little noise. Shrugging off all that learning and growing he thinks he did in the decade between them both.
Living relationships ebb and flow tidally, with good and less good moments. Sometimes it’s passionate, sometimes a comfort, sometimes you’re mountaineering, sometimes you’re coasting. Things trough and things rally. When you finally break up, all that motion stops – your relationship becoming a fixed point that gets further and further behind you. The longer you’re out, the less extreme the feelings, which is probably the only upside to being heartbroken.
Do you ever wonder what your ex is saying about you? How they frame your relationship and its dissolution? What kills me is how much their re-telling of the relationship could differ from yours. The discrepancies in the little fictions we tell ourselves in order to move on from love. There are so many feelings when you fall out of crazy, stupid love, it’s impossible for both sides to match up.
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