A reader grapples with the increasing burden of collecting packages for their neighbors, especially during the holidays. They seek advice on how to politely decline future requests without jeopardizing their good relationships.
My family lives in a small apartment building and we really enjoy our neighbors. However, there is one issue that rears its head around holidays that I’m unsure of how to address without potentially offending these good neighbors. Our family doesn’t travel very frequently. We also don’t receive a lot of packages compared to many of our neighbors, most of whom get multiple packages a day. I’m often asked if I can collect packages while other families who travel frequently are gone.
If it were only ever so often or only a package here and there, I wouldn’t mind. However, it seems I have become the go-to person and there are many, many packages to look out for. Furthermore, several times once I have collected and held packages for neighbors, they do not come and pick them up in a timely manner once they’ve returned. Thus, we have been left with stacks of boxes and envelopes, and I’ve had to request that people come get their belongings. Even if we aren’t traveling, I find it burdensome to have to be on the lookout for packages, so they don’t go missing once they are left by the carrier, store the packages and then remind people to remove them from our space. If a neighbor asks if we’ll be around for a holiday, I don’t want to lie and say we won’t be. However, I’m tired of being asked to be a default porter. Can you suggest how I might handle this dilemma with minimal damage to my good relationships with likeable neighbors
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