The dispute over her phone video escalated to a threat of violence.
I was in a medical office waiting room while my husband was having a test done. I was the only one sitting in the waiting room initially, until another person arrived.
She had her cellphone on, and was watching a program when she walked in the facility. No one was at the front desk at the time of her arrival. The volume was very loud, and all that could be heard was one profanity after another. After a few minutes, I asked her if she had headphones, because the program was so loud and offensive.
I told her it was inconsiderate of her to play this type of program in a waiting room. She then threatened to beat me up if I didn’t “shut the f— up. ”I know you’re probably saying I should have just ignored her, but something in me would not let me. I feel we have allowed all decency to be slowly eradicated from our society and if people don’t start saying something, we will be lost.
Businesses need to implement policies that require headphones with the use of cellphones in their offices. No one should be subject to listening to the most degrading and profane words that now seem popular with some people. : If only Miss Manners had put in earplugs — or rather, put on an eye shade — before she saw this. But she is sadly familiar with a pattern practiced by ordinary citizens, supposedly just going about their business:2.
Someone else scolds the offender. And oh, yes, there is another: 5. One or both of them invokes the noble name of etiquette, claiming to be enforcing proper behavior. Miss Manners is not grateful for the assistance.
But neither does she agree that suffering rudeness is the only alternative. Even if there was no one at the desk, you could have found someone in authority to deal with this. Or you could have waited for your husband elsewhere, sending him a text on where to find you. : I love eating cherries, but how can I eat them without offending anyone by spitting out the stones?
Well, you could swallow them, but Miss Manners does not advise this. When you were a child, surely someone told you that this would make a cherry tree grow in your tummy. It is the spitting part, which suggests propelling it out, along with some noise and saliva, which can be offensive.
Instead, push the pit forward with your tongue and quietly deposit it in your hand or, better, a napkin if you are fortunate enough to have one within reach. Then what? Ashtrays have disappeared, so if there is no used plate around, into your pocket they go — offending only yourself or whoever does your laundry.
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