Advice from Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin.
: I have been to several weddings over the last few years, and I’ve noticed a trend. Do the groomsmen have no responsibilities to the bride and groom before, during or after the ceremony these days?
I find this odd and unsettling. I’ve found myself stepping in to hold the groom’s beverage while he is in candid pictures with friends and family, or helping the bride navigate a narrow flower-lined pathway in her long dress. I’ve even helped elderly family members to their seats.: Do the bridesmaids know about this?
But come to think of it, she never hears such complaints from groomsmen. If they are not saddled with excessive tasks and expenses, so much the better.However, they represent the bridegroom, who should instruct them to do minor hostly jobs -- including those you mention, as well as socializing with any stranded guests.DEAR MISS MANNERS
My wife was very reluctant to do so, but I was not. The star was incredibly happy to see us and to receive our friend’s greetings. We chatted for a long time about the production, joined by other cast members who also knew our mutual friend. They all said it was a pleasure to see somebody from home.
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