Dear How to Do It: Should I tell my husband the truth after so many years?
I am a straight guy in my mid-30s who is facing something of a midlife … moment? I am an extremely shy person. Always have been. I have been a loner for most of my life and have not dated anyone in over a decade. Building that sort of connection and allowing oneself to be vulnerable like that is frankly terrifying to me. I’m left an anxious mess just thinking about it. When I was a younger man, I had a few shitty, toxic relationships go south.
But I’m not convinced that your inaction comes from forecasting even as specific as, “If I do this I may be rejected”—what does crashing and burning immediately after logging onto an app actually mean? The good news is, it won’t involve actual death—if the burns are metaphorical, well, they’ll help you develop a proverbial thicker skin at any rate.Ask yourself what the worst thing is that can happen by putting yourself out there.
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