Dear How to Do It: I don’t think he’s enjoying this endeavor as much as I am!
My wife and I are both 61, in mostly good health with good jobs. We both exercise regularly.
About 4-to-5 years ago, my wife started losing interest in sex, always saying she just wasn’t in the mood, until I stopped asking. We are close and affectionate empty-nesters. We are quite comfortable financially—we have a weekly cleaning service, so no major household tasks. We have shared interests, lovely vacations, cuddle and kiss. I very much love her. It’s just all very PG-rated.Maybe this hits me especially hard because of my background.
My future wife and I met a couple years out of college. We were each other’s first serious partner and at 24, both virgins. We were awkward at first, but we enjoyed sex, even during the busy years with young children. With my wife’s agreement, I happily got a vasectomy later to make sex more spontaneous, as her doctor advised against the pill.Now, I’m wondering, as I did in college, what I was doing wrong.
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