Dear How to Do It: Please tell me if this is normal.
My partner and I are both 21 and in a long-distance relationship. He’s bisexual and often asexual. In short, he says he needs to have other partners while we’re long-distance. I’d rather him not, but I’d be okay with it if he agreed to some boundaries. Unfortunately, he’s not good at those.About a week ago, he told me he’d become pretty emotionally involved with a girl at his university. I was surprised but tried to set some boundaries.
I don’t have any moral or ethical problem with nonmonogamy, but I’m sad and nervous about how to navigate this divide between us. I want him to be happy and fulfilled, and I want to be with him, but I don’t know how to square that with the growing feeling that his affairs just aren’t working for me.If you equate specialness with being someone’s one and only, there’s a good chance you’re inclined toward monogamy . If that’s the case,a nonmonogamous arrangement isn’t working for you.
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