Help! I Snooped on My Husband’s Phone. What I Found Was Chilling.

I can’t pretend I’m ok after seeing what I saw.

I have a dilemma. My husband “Harry” and I have been married for nearly 10 years, with three young children. We have multiple businesses and houses together, we go on dates regularly, we’ve traveled extensively with our kids, and I would consider ours to be a happy marriage. Candidly, our relationship began in the shadows, as he was still legally married to his first wife—“Linda” —though it was in the process of divorce for quite some time before we met.

I scrolled through a few weeks’ worth of correspondences, most of which were related to their daughter but some were banter with things like Linda saying she needed to cook for him soon as a thank you for something he had done for her recently, Harry teasing her about how she looks in the morning, etc. I went cold.

I am excited about my graphic novel being published soon. My husband and I were talking about it, and he mentioned being a “silent investor” in it. When I asked him what he meant by that, he told me that he had contributed. I reminded him that I paid for the artist and letterer and that I never once asked him for money. He responded with a flippant, “Well, I keep a roof over your head.” This absolutely floored me.

Apparently, after our last visit, she resents my relationship with my family and “the position I put her in of having to know her family is the bad one.” When we got together, she said, she never thought she’d have this problem since my family is blue collar and she assumed that they would be the problematic ones. She says that I need to adjust my relationship with my parents so things are “fair.” I don’t know what she expects of me, and she doesn’t seem to either.

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