Plus: Things took a bad turn on my vacation with friends.
I’ve been married for a while now, and I just found out that my husband has been keeping some of his finances a secret from me.Despite our talks about being open about money, he has been hiding debts and his spending habits. I recently discovered that he’s been spending a significant amount on luxury watches and dining out, which he never mentioned to me.
What do you want to save for? Talk about the future, what it may cost and how the two of you can plan together to make it happen. Suggest that you both contribute to a “future fund.” This may encourage him to divert some of his mad money back to your joint account without you scolding him about it.: I am feeling hurt after a recent vacation with my friends, and I’m not sure what to do.
As the days went on, the arguments escalated. We found ourselves bickering over small things like where to eat, who should pay for what and even trivial matters like room assignments. I keep thinking about the things that were said and the way we treated one another. It’s hard to imagine going back to the way things were before.Ask Amy: My friend’s apology for the snub was nowhere near adequate
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