I care about my roommate, but her need for validation is draining.
Whether it’s about her clothing choices, personal decisions or even her appearance, she frequently asks for my opinions and needs constant affirmation.
Explain that sometimes you need quiet time when you can be left alone to do nothing — not talk, just go about your business. Explain that as much as you care about her, you also do not have the capacity to validate her every thought or decision. Tell her it’s too much for you to handle. She may need examples to understand what you mean.
I wish I could find a way to make this day less painful and more enjoyable, even if I am spending it alone.
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