Years after her husband's sudden passing, a woman recounts a poignant experience at a security checkpoint where she was treated with empathy and understanding for her grief.
I have no real memory of the months after his passing. ... I’d 'wake' to find myself at the grocery store holding a box of his favorite cereal with no idea how I got there.I placed the box on the security conveyor belt, then hefted my bulging backpack into a bin and pushed it into the scanner. When the screener, a young woman about my daughter’s age, noticed me, I patted the box. “Thank you for telling us,” she said, “so we can be sure to treat it with the utmost respect.
” After a careful inspection, she handed the box to me. “I’m sorry for your loss,” she said, her tone making clear she meant it. “Thanks,” I said, nodding, and then headed toward the gate for my flight to meet my now-grown kids. My husband, Kai, died seven years earlier. His diagnosis had come too late for any meaningful medical action, and the cancer killed him in just five months. He had been active and in excellent health. The kids were close to college graduation, and we’d had so many plans for our empty-nest stage: international travel, beach sunrises, books to read and write. Maybe spoiling grandchildren someday. The future we’d planned for and dreamed about was like pages ripped out of a book and burned, never to be read. The shock of his death was overwhelming. A burial and a memorial service were totally out of the question. The grief was somehow too immense — too personal — to share. In the “before” time, I was hypervigilant and super organized. I jokingly referred to myself as a type A-plus. When Kai died, I lost my capacity to hold a thought — my ability to focus. I left my keys in the door lock and put laundry away in the refrigerator. I have no real memory of the months after his passing. Each day felt like a restless sleepwalk. I’d “wake” to find myself at the grocery store holding a box of his favorite cereal with no idea how I got there and no awareness of how long I had been blankly staring at it. I was a stranger to mysel
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