A reader writes to Dear Abby about a long-time friend who has become distant since entering a new relationship. The friend no longer makes time for their weekly gatherings or in-depth conversations and the reader is unsure if it's time to let go of the friendship.
Published: Jan. 25, 2025, 12:00 p.m.DEAR ABBY: I have had a friend for many years. We’re from the same hometown and enjoyed getting together weekly for Saturday morning breakfasts and long chats about our highlights and sometimes our lows. We considered each other best friends.
Several years ago, she found a boyfriend , and since then, she no longer makes time for our get-togethers. It has been two years since she could make it for a meal or a glass of wine or a quick drop-by chat. Now when we do talk on the phone, it’s limited to a “How are you? I am fine” kind of conversation.
Although I continue sending cards and dropping off a holiday gift like we used to, there’s barely any acknowledgment. I no longer feel inclined to keep up one-sided, frustrating phone contacts. Must I just let it all go, fade into the distance and be satisfied that this has run its course? -- LEFT BEHIND IN CALIFORNIA
DEAR LEFT BEHIND: Your friend’s life has moved in a different direction. Because she is now devoting her energy to the relationship she has with her boyfriend, the answer to your question is yes.Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.
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