My dad is nice, but not very responsible.
I, 14 and a guy, just started high school. My family all just moved because of my dad’s work, and we all live together. The house is cramped because Dad is the only one who works regularly, and his job is good but he’s not rich. My dad is nice but not the most responsible. Same for my aunt and uncle. I feel like the parent here, and like I’m the oldest and should really be in charge, in a way—like things would go better if I was. It’s also hard getting used to a totally new environment.
A lot of how you should respond depends on what you mean by “not the most responsible.” Is that eating fast food every night? Watching television all day, every day? Or are they leaving the door unlocked at night, inviting shady friends over, stashing things in your space that don’t belong there? The real question is are you stressed out, in danger, or both?
I’m not really getting “danger” from your letter, but only you can know that. If you think there is something going one that could threaten your safety , first try reaching out to another relative or close family friend, someone who wouldn’t want to see something bad happen to you or your family.
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