Dear Annie: Son’s ‘no-hug’ policy with our grandkids leaves us heartbroken

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Dear Annie: Son’s ‘no-hug’ policy with our grandkids leaves us heartbroken
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My wife went to give him a hug, and out of the blue, my son and his wife literally jumped up and said, “No! We don’t do that!”

Annie Lane shares some thoughts on how parents should try to convey their wishes privately and not cause an outburst in front of the children.

My heart is broken, and so is my wife’s. This past year, we planned a family vacation because my daughter and her family and my son and his live in a different state. We were meeting in the middle to save everyone from such a long road trip. My wife and I have been married almost 35 years, and she helped raise my two children. My grandchildren all adore her. On the second day of our trip, my wife and my son’s 7-year-old son were playing cards.

It was shocking to say the least. My wife couldn’t believe it; she immediately left the room, and she says even now, four months later, that the look on our grandson’s face when that happened broke her heart. Needless to say, the rest of the trip was very awkward. I am very close to my son, and we still talk roughly every other day, but my wife will never forgive them for that. I feel like my son and his wife owe my wife an apology because things will never be the same. My son is a police officer, and he has seen a lot, and as a result he and his wife are very overprotective of his children. They don’t let them spend the night away from home because they don’t trust people.

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