Advice from Annie Lane.
I’ve been with my boyfriend, “Mike,” for five years, and we’ve lived together for three. I’ve noticed he’s been distant lately. I can’t quite put my finger on why; he says he has just been stressed about work.
Mike and I have always been honest with each other, so this secrecy feels like a betrayal. I want to address it, but I don’t want to come off as accusatory or make him feel like I was snooping on his phone. I love him, but I just can’t escape the feeling that something is wrong.: Start by sharing your feelings without blaming him -- for instance, “I’ve been feeling a bit disconnected from you lately and it worries me.
If Mike is open and honest, it should help ease your mind. If he becomes defensive, it might be worth exploring further. Trust your instincts, but also give him the chance to explain. Open communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship.I have been in a relationship with a married man for over 14 years. We’ve known each other for 40 now. He’s been married for 28 years. I’ve been widowed now for nine.
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