I’m not so sure if it’s the cheating that bothers me so much as the length of time he cheated on me, and how the heck did I not see it for that many years?
Today's reader is struggling with her husband's affair but isn't sure if it is the infidelity or the length of the affair that bothers her more.
I don’t know what I have to do to get past this. I even thought about or wished that someone could just knock it out of my brain. But triggers pop up everywhere. We can’t even watch a show together without someone having an affair, and it just triggers me and ruins the whole night. We continue to work on our marriage, as we both want it to work, but there are some days that I feel like I’m just being stupid and I should just leave.
I’m not very superstitious, but I feel like it’s bad luck, and I can’t help but get chills every time I hear that name. Should I share this with her? Thank you for your advice. -- Haunted by a NameUnless your friend asks you outright for your thoughts, keep your family’s history with this name to yourself. For your friend and her husband, it brings joy and excitement, and learning of your experience with it can only make them anxious and stressed, which isn’t good for any parent-to-be.
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