While I acknowledge his lower libido, I believe that a healthy level of intimacy is essential for any marital relationship.
Annie Lane has some advice for today's reader who is frustrated by her husband's lack of physical intimacy in their marriage.
Despite repeated attempts to initiate discussions on the topic, my husband becomes defensive and dismissive, asserting that I place undue emphasis on sexual intimacy and that it should not be the primary focus of our marriage. This lack of intimacy has adversely affected my emotional and physical well-being, although I maintain a deep affection for him as a person.
Meanwhile, try to increase physical affection in non-sexual ways, like holding hands or hugging. These can be stepping stones to more intimate moments. Keep an open dialogue, emphasizing to your husband your desire to nurture and strengthen your bond together as a team. With professional guidance and patience, you have a good chance of finding a balance that suits both your needs.
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