Is there any way we can support him through this difficult time without alienating him further or creating more tension?
While two frustrated parents may wish to have their son back in their lives, Annie Lane points out it is ultimately up to him to decide whether to reach out or follow his wife's lead.
While we’ve managed to maintain a wonderful relationship with our granddaughter, things with our son have become strained, largely due to his new wife, who has become very controlling. She clearly dislikes us, and as a result, our relationship with him has virtually collapsed. How can we possibly repair this broken relationship with our son when his wife seems determined to keep us at a distance? We are desperate for advice on how to rebuild our family ties before it’s too late. -- Heartbroken ParentsThis is an incredibly difficult situation for everyone involved. The hard truth is that the only person who can truly help your son is your son himself; he has to want the help and be ready to accept it.
Recently, he told me he was on the waiting list for a kidney transplant, but to our dismay, he’s since learned that he no longer qualifies and will have to remain on dialysis for the rest of his life. I’m heartbroken for him, as he’s 67 and comes from a family with longevity. At the same time, I find myself confused and uncertain about our future together, knowing that this will significantly affect our life as a couple.
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