Being flexible with holiday plans can be a wonderful solution that allows everyone to enjoy the celebration without hurt feelings or the stress of choosing between families.
With busy schedules and multiple family units to consider, today's reader suggests some families consider celebrating holidays on multiple dates.
Growing up, my parents divorced when I was young, and holidays were often split between households. However, my mother always made sure I never felt like I was missing out on a holiday with her. We simply celebrated on a different day, and she made it just as special, as if it were the actual holiday. For example, even if Thanksgiving was on a Thursday, we would celebrate on the following Saturday, and it still felt just like Thanksgiving.
At the end of the day, it’s just a day on the calendar, but it’s the togetherness that really matters. Warm regards. -- Flexible Like GumbyWith the holidays just around the corner, I thought your letter was a wonderful one to share at this time. You highlight so many important points that can lead to a more peaceful and joyful life.
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