The girl is usually so polite. How can we get her to stop this behavior?
Andrea has never done anything like this before, and this is not like her. Her friends don’t look or act like Goths or punks. She earns good grades, and she is usually a quiet girl who never speaks to anyone other than her mom or brothers.You keep referring to your niece as a “girl.” Allow me to enlighten you: This “girl” is a young woman.
If Granny has a bone to pick with Andrea about her choice of jewelry, she should discuss it with her instead of railing against her fashion choice behind her back. From my perspective, this is a tempest in a teapot. Let it blow over.I have two daughters, ages 29 and 24. Both are married and on their own. Recently, there was an issue between them. I always try to remain neutral in these situations because I love my girls equally.
The older one is hurt and angry and has every right to feel that way. She doesn’t want to even look at her sister at this point, and I completely understand. The younger one is embarrassed and ashamed and doesn’t want to face her sister right now. Again, I understand. On holidays and special occasions, I always cook a huge meal, and the girls come to my house. How do I handle this? I refuse to cook separate dinners or choose which one I eat my meal with.Tell your younger daughter that regardless of her “embarrassment,” it’s time to offer her sister a sincere apology. Then explain that you have no intention of having holidays and special occasions ruined because of what she did and you want things patched up before those events start happening. Period.
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