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A woman seeks advice from Dear Abby on how to forgive her husband who cheated on her over 40 years ago.
Forty years ago, my husband had an affair that left me emotionally damaged. I took him back when he asked, and we went on with our lives -- well,did. Even today, if I hear a song from that time or her name, I freak out. When I remember how he told me he loved her, something inside me dies. I went to counseling, but all I got from it was a bill I couldn’t afford. He treats me well and says “I love you” every day, yet the cut is still fresh and deep. Any suggestions? --After 40 years of torturing yourself, the memory of your husband’s transgression has become ingrained. By holding onto this, you are only hurting yourself. You took him back after the affair but have never truly forgiven him, which is why you cannot let it go.
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