Dear Abby: My elderly mom only wants to spend time with me and my wife

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Dear Abby: My elderly mom only wants to spend time with me and my wife
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Dear Abby advises a son who can’t get his mother to socialize.

My mother, who is 69, recently moved close to where my wife and I live to be near us as she ages. On the whole, this has been great for all of us. Mom is in good health and still very active. She walks every day and takes care of her house and garden. We see her often.

Because she’s independent, this isn’t a big deal now. But I’m worried that if she doesn’t get to know people while she’s still active, we’ll be her only source of support as she ages. Before she isolates herself further than she already has, sit her down and tell her directly that you do not want this to happen and that she MUST make more of an effort to interact with others. While relationships are not interchangeable, she once had a social life, and she will again IF she makes an effort.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby atAustralians sign petition to hold Rachael 'Raygun' Gunn and Anna Meares ‘accountable for unethical conduct’ after Olympics debacle

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