He says he can no longer trust me, even though I never did what I was texting about.
I have known my husband for 10 years. We have been married for four. We love each other very much, but I did something that has caused him to no longer trust me, and he won’t forgive me.Dear Abby: Everything was fine, and then my sons just stopped talking to me I went to a pub while my husband was at a class.
I told him I was going to the pub, and he was fine with it. We know everybody who works there very well. The problem is, a nice man sat down a seat away from me and we started talking about all kinds of stuff. At the end of the evening, we exchanged phone numbers. He texted me a week later wanting to know if I could meet him for lunch.My husband saw his text on my phone, and he is upset and angry. He hasn’t spoken to me since. It’s been almost a week.: Although your intentions may have been innocent, for your husband to have found out about the planned lunch the way he did couldn’t have been worse. Had you told him you met someone “nice” and had been invited to lunch, it might not have made him angry. I don’t blame him for feeling he may not be able to trust you. Remind him that you did not go to that lunch. Tell him you love him and ask what you need to do to earn back that trust. Ask if he would go to counseling with you.My sister “Claudia” recently asked me on a Saturday to take her to the eye doctor the following Tuesday. Well, I forgot. She didn’t call me the night before to remind me, nor did she call me the next day to confirm. She did call our cousin to take her. Now Claudia is mad at me. I think it was both our faults — mine because I forgot, and Claudia’s for not calling me. She told me it was an important follow-up appointment, and she was really upset. Is she being childish?: Oh, my goodness. You are human and you forgot! I don’t think it was a hanging offense. However, Claudia managed to come up with a Plan B and the cousin saved the day. See how resourceful she can be in a pinch? In the future, when your hands are full — and from what you have described about your mother-in-law, it is safe to assume they will be — when Claudia asks you to take her to a medical appointment, perhaps Plan B should become Plan A. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.Ask Amy: I challenged her parenting, and my daughter-in-law has gone silent for two yearsDear Abby: The bride isn't taking kindly to her stepmother's demandAsk Amy: My landlady is my mom, and she's upset about my security cameraDear Abby: I made a mistake with a man in a bar, and my husband won't speak to meProp. 1: Where are voters favoring Newsom's tightly contested mental health measure?United plane veers off runway in third Boeing incident this week44 things this Chicagoan didn’t know about ‘The Blues Brothers’
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