I love the bride, her fiance is amazing, but I feel bad when I’m with them.
: My sister recently got engaged. I’m ecstatic for her. Her fiance is amazing. She and I have always been close, and I’m going to be her maid of honor.Dear Abby: We’re paying a lot for the wedding, and I need them to keep their kids in lineThe problem is, since they’ve been dating, and especially now that they’re getting married, I’ve been jealous. I feel like a little green monster when I see them together.
I hate fighting these feelings when I’m truly happy for them both. But I feel jealous and then guilty for feeling this way and I’m sick of it tainting my genuine happiness. What should I do?None of us is proud of feeling jealous, but most of us have experienced a twinge at one time or another. have faith that you will meet yours as well. It may not happen today or tomorrow, but one day when you least expect it, you will turn around, and he will be there.
He says he doesn’t want to be with me because “he doesn’t see me that way.” He also talks to another girl. He claims they’re also just friends and have only a platonic connection, but I’ve seen kissy emojis, miss-you texts and nude photos they’ve exchanged.When I asked him why he lives with me, he said it’s because I am a better alternative to sleeping on his mom’s couch next to her dog. I cannot express how painful it was to hear that.
How do I get this guy out of my house and out of my heart so I no longer feel like a live-in maid, concubine, bank account, chef and personal assistant in exchange for the privilege of being mistreated?: How do you get this poor excuse for a man out of your heart? From the tone of your letter, you are already more than halfway there.
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