Dear Abby: ‘I go to bed in tears each night feeling we have failed’

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Dear Abby: ‘I go to bed in tears each night feeling we have failed’
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DEAR ABBY: ... My husband and I have raised (two sons) to be respectful and to make responsible decisions. ...

DEAR ABBY: I have two sons I’m very proud of. My husband and I have raised them to be respectful and to make responsible decisions. However, I go to bed in tears each night feeling we have failed.

We try to support our son and daughter-in-law, but we do not feel respected and loved in return. When we invite them for dinner, they arrive an hour or two late or don’t show up at all. We send them text messages, but they don’t respond. We offer to help and are there for them when they ask us to be, regardless of our personal consequence. What can we do? -- OVERFLOWING WITH LOVE

You may have raised your son well, but your daughter-in-law appears to be running the show. Her parents may take precedence on the hierarchy of importance, and if that’s the case, you and your husband need to clear the air with your son AND his wife, and sacrifice less when they snap their fingers.DEAR ABBY: I have been working with a therapist on creating healthy boundaries with my family.

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