Plus: Are we ogres for giving more money to our college-bound grandson than his military brother?
Ben has never given me a reason not to trust him, so why am I still bothered by her? She has moved on and is in another relationship.
Whether your issue is insecurity or lack of self-esteem, it’s time to wake up and recognize that Ben chose you over her. If you can’t accept that and relax, you may need to discuss it with a licensed psychotherapist for help to stop cyberstalking her. She may be a part of your boyfriend’s past, but please do not continue making her part of your present.: We have three grandchildren, and we feel strongly about the importance of a college education.
When the second one graduated, we gave him a $500 graduation gift. Because he had committed to joining the Navy, we assured him that he would also receive $1,500 if and when he enrolled in college. Since then, we have been accused of not respecting his career choice, showing favoritism and other accusations too numerous to list here.
Your second grandson is likely to find his career path as part of his military service. One could argue that you are favoring the grandchild who is following the career path you are biased toward, and from that perspective, it does appear you are playing favorites.
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