Dear Abby advises a aunt struggling to rekindle a relationship with her meth-addicted nephew.
I am very close to my oldest sister’s three sons, especially “Lucas,” who is 38. He and I have communicated often and have seen each other over the years. In a way, I have been his confidant. He knows I love him like a son.
My family typically handles things with a “don’t ask, don’t tell” strategy. I’m very much up front . I also have learned much about addiction, and I’m very concerned about Lucas. I have been having stress dreams about this. I am also struggling with letting my sister know, but I’ve been waiting to speak with Lucas. I’d really appreciate any advice you have. —It is possible that your sister already knows about her son’s addiction, particularly if it has wrought physical changes.
I always knew Mom could do better, and I had my suspicions about this guy. I am very protective of her. She has been through so much. What do I do with this information? If I tell her, I’ll feel ashamed for looking in the first place. Please help. —to tell your mother what you did and what you found. Do not classify it as “he’s cheating,” because you don’t know for certain. Simply state the facts, then let her do her own investigating and draw her own conclusions.
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