My husband’s girlfriend doesn’t want him back. I don’t know if I do, either.
I asked, and he confessed that it was with an old school sweetheart. I asked how long it had been going on. He said two years. He then called her and told her I knew.When I got on the phone with her, she said he was lying, and their affair had been going on for 20 years!I’m having so much trouble with this and all the things they did together. He invited her to his mom’s visitation when she passed. He invited her to other things as well.
The way things are now is not comfortable. He doesn’t care. He just wants his way and to not let anyone else in the family know. A marriage without trust is no marriage at all. If you were to separate, your life would not be much different than it already is. It might even be better. From what you have written, you have already been alone for a very long time.We are heartbroken, defeated, overwhelmed and exhausted. We are struggling emotionally, physically and financially because of this journey.
If this causes hurt feelings, remind the host that grief has no set timetable, and you will celebrate with them again when you are up to it. Period.
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