Annie's advice on handling unexpected visitors when you're not prepared, especially for those with mobility issues.
DEAR ANNIE: I have mobility issues and use a walker, so I’m mostly confined to my home. My son helps by taking me to the beauty salon and occasionally to the bank or pharmacy, but I spend most of my time at home. Today, two ladies showed up at my door unexpectedly. I hadn’t been up long and wasn’t dressed for visitors, and my house was far from presentable. There were Christmas boxes scattered everywhere, and I had just dropped a coffee cup, leaving broken pieces all over the kitchen floor.
Needless to say, I wasn’t in a state to entertain anyone. When they rang the doorbell, I chose not to answer. It wasn’t that I didn’t appreciate their visit, but the timing caught me completely off guard. Had I known they were coming, I would’ve had time to change clothes, tidy up the living room and prepare myself to receive guests. Now I’m feeling guilty and wondering if I was wrong not to answer the door. Should I have let them in, despite the chaos and my discomfort? What’s the polite way to handle unexpected visitors when you simply aren’t ready for company? -- Feeling Awkward DEAR FEELING AWKWARD: You were absolutely not wrong to prioritize your comfort and well-being. Managing unexpected visitors can be challenging, especially when you’re dealing with mobility issues and weren’t prepared. It’s completely understandable that you chose not to answer the door in that moment. A kind way to handle this in the future might be to call or message the visitors later, thanking them for stopping by and explaining that it wasn’t a good time. Most people will understand and appreciate your thoughtfulness. Remember, it’s OK to set boundaries and take care of yourself first; you don’t need to feel guilty for that
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