Dear Eric: Should I go to Tanzania for two weeks with people I don’t know and one person I only kind of know?
I mentioned I wanted to go to Tanzania some day and this lady in the movie theater said, “Oh, I’m going to Tanzania and we need one more person in our group.” Between airfare and safari costs, it will be $8,000. I have the money, but I was planning to invest in a mutual fund. Should I go?Dear Invitation: No! Do not go to a second location with random people from movie theaters! Report to your financial adviser’s office, STAT. It sounds like you just want something to spend money on.
I realize I’m likely putting too much pressure on myself, but should I be expected to give presents to everyone in my life, even those on the periphery?Dear Present: Something that brought you joy is now creating undue stress, and so it’s time to let it go. While your generosity was selfless, it also made you feel good to give presents and bring people joy – that’s as it should be. You’re allowed to get a lift from doing nice things.
Some family members may have something to say when/if they notice the change, but an expectation on their part does not mean an obligation on yours. Tell them, “We’re trying out new ways of showing our love and excitement, but if t here’s anything you need, know we’re always here for you.”
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