Advice from R. Eric Thomas.
By R. Eric ThomasMy brother and sister-in-law visit infrequently, usually only once or twice a year, including a major holiday. After each visit I tell my husband that we will not host them again.
They are provided comfortable guest accommodations and multiple meals, but never bring a host gift. I have the impression they feel entitled, as some of the families do not have financial concerns. Please let me know, shall I “buck up” and tolerate their lack of manners and consideration, or suggest they book a room at one of several local hotels?This is the paradox of telling guests, especially guests we’re related to, that they should “make themselves at home”.
She vehemently refuses to learn to use a smartphone or any technology, like texting, that would make it easier for me to reassure her if I cannot immediately speak to her.
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