One part of the family says we need to help the baby now, not years from now.
My adult nephew and his girlfriend recently had a child. They are both in their mid-30s and neither has gainful employment. My nephew has also struggled with mental health issues. His mother passed away several years ago, so his remaining family system consists of grandparents, aunts and uncles.
I’m curious what your relationship with your nephew is like outside of your financial support. Can you offer guidance or advice? What does the rest of the family’s support look like? Maybe you’re all doing everything you can, to no avail. But attaching strings to your money is just going to cause you more frustration.
Is it appropriate for me to send him an anniversary card? I feel this milestone should be acknowledged in some way, and it might bring him some joy to know I remember. He has a close family and I’m sure their children will acknowledge the date also, but I’d like to acknowledge it myself. We are all grieving.I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend. Lou would surely appreciate hearing from you and even be encouraged by the warm memories of that special wedding day.
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