Advice columnist Amy Dickinson answers her readers’ questions in this January 3, 2023 edition of Ask Amy.
I see your issue as occurring across two tracks. First of all, the visage you should want to avoid is the rat who cheated on you.
A person who has been cheated on will often feel unworthy. But the process of recovering will be to transfer your harsher feelings away from yourself, and — if those feelings need to go somewhere — point your anger toward the unethical person who wronged you. I urge you to return to the psychologist who treated you previously to discuss these feelings, so that you might continue to work toward your recovery.
No. There is no non-cruel way to say, “I am nauseated looking at photos of you and your late husband, so it’s time to get over his death.”There’s grief, and there’s celebration. These photos of the two of them might be seen as a celebration of their relationship.
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