This 70-year-old widower is ready to start dating again. But how does he start?
I am an almost 70-year-old widower who wants to meet new people. Especially female people. Unfortunately, I have almost no experience.
I had a total of two dates in high school, both of which went nowhere. I became very good friends with my best friend’s wife , and when they divorced, she and I got married. So when it comes to wooing and flirting, I’ve got nothing.It has been four years since my wife died, and I have had zero possible romantic encounters. My only teacher has been rom-com movies, which I am told do not portray real life. Sadly, I was planning my run through the airport already, but now I’m lost.
There are a number of online dating sites designated for “silver singles” like you. Peruse and research these sites to see if you are ready to meet women virtually.Not only am I the only remaining Jewish person in my immediate family, but I became more observant as my parents’ chief mourner/Kaddish. I plan my life around our holidays. I’ve noticed that my beloved nieces and nephews do not acknowledge these holidays and do not wish me a “Happy …” holiday.Should I say something? Do something? How can I feel better about this? I am single and without children, and — other than this — these relatives are a light in my days.I take it that you and your siblings were perhaps raised in the faith and that your siblings have drifted or are lapsed.
Because Jewish holidays are scheduled according to a lunar calendar, for those following the Gregorian calendar, these holidays can seem to float throughout their seasons. So, for instance, the Rosh Hashanah doesn’t always fall on Jan. 1. Hanukkah doesn’t always begin on Dec. 25.Perhaps you could increase their awareness by offering your nieces and nephews a glimpse into your world.
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