Dear Amy: One evening at a party about five months ago, I inadvertently witnessed a passionate kiss between the husband of the family giving the party, and the nanny to the children.
When the man subsequently turned on the light, I said nothing.Several times during the evening he sought me out and asked for time and silence.He then stunned me again by saying that he and his wife hadn’t had sex for 12 years.
The nanny didn’t leave for a couple of months, which was agony for me. I kept my distance from everyone. Keeping this secret was a burden. I don’t want to be the cause of a total breakdown of the marriage, at the same time, I need to have an honest relationship with people I care about.Dear Witness: On a very deep level, none of this is any of your business, and yet the principals won’t shut up about it, so with every entreaty, they are drawing you further in.
When that date arrives, assume that the deed has been done and they are working things out privately, don’t act further, and move on.
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